This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

May 29, 2012

A Tribute To Father's

As Father's day is approaching and I can't but think about my dad, about how difficult it is to celebrate this day without him. I also think about the other daughters and sons. This will be the 3rd Father's day his body is no longer with me and my family in Earth but his soul still is. Last year I had a very interesting experience on Father's day, which made me think he was around. I was on a cruise on the Mediterranean. I rented...
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May 24, 2012

Confessions: When you hit rock bottom

CONFESSIONS:  WHEN YOU HIT ROCK BOTTOM THERE IS NO WHERE TO GO BUT UP For thirty-four years of my life I've never been a secure person.  Always second guessing myself, being afraid to be out in the crowds due to feeling I would be judged, not having the confidence in being in my own skin.  Going out in to the world was a huge task for me to achieve each day. To be a prisoner trapped in your own body was what I was, the...
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May 15, 2012

James Van Praagh

JAMES VAN PRAAGH:  HIS GIFT BLESSES OUR GRIEVING HEARTS I have always taken a huge liking to James Van Praagh due to the fact of some personal experiences as well as always feeling in my heart that life just does not end after death.  Losing many loved ones in my life I have always felt their love even long after they have passed.  Going through our busy lives we never really take the time to notice the blessings...
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May 14, 2012

One Year Mark

ONE YEAR MARK: AS I WAS TOLD LIFE COULD BE BITTER SWEET SOMETIMES Sometimes in life we are deeply touched by visions as well as thoughts of the past.  Unexpectedly we are brought to the pain of the past.  It is up to us how we react to it, it is up to us if we let that pain forever control us, keeping us trapped in that pain.  For me the one year mark was a true test to myself as well as my future ahead. Laying...
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May 7, 2012

Oprah Dream Coming True

OPRAH DREAM COMING TRUE PART 2:  AHA PARADISE             In continuation of "OPRAH DREAMING COMING TRUE" this post will be a shocker to all widows that read this.  So as I mentioned before as I sat watching Oprah as well as her powered house spirit healers, I kept thinking I knew that this experience would be something to remember ALWAYS.  What I could of never imagined was it would change...
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May 3, 2012

The Ottoman: Simple Things Create Huge Healing

So while out shopping I came across something that I really liked.  As a woman you must know that we always want what we want, we like to decorate our homes to look good, when presented with a good deal it is even better (LOL).  The whole time while admiring the brown ottoman my whole intent was to just have it to add to our new space.  My daughter and I are on the bridge to building a new life, life has never been...
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