This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Jan 30, 2013

I saw You

My husband, in others I see him to remind me our love is every where. Not to long ago there was a moment in time I thought would never be. It was a moment not ever thought of nor thought would ever have to face. Isn't it funny the most out of this world things that you thought could never be, one day proves to you "oh yes it can". These moments leave you standing in what feels is a dream, the words try to surface, yet nothing comes...
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Jan 28, 2013

Sorry All

Tonight I accidently deleted my new post I posted called "I Saw You" will be re typing and posting again.  Huge frustration so early in the morning. ...
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Jan 11, 2013

Remembering memories with love not pain

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. – Kahlil Gibran   On our wedding day I knew our future would not be long, yet our true love would last forever. In the beginning of my grief I can remember the unbearable pain as soon as a memory of our life came into my mind, the pain took out all the life in me to just remember. ...
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Jan 4, 2013

Remembering Namita Bhandare

This tragedy struck a nerve in me deeply and felt to post here about it to try to get the word out there more.  No one should ever have to live in fear, I hope the darkness will lift for all those that live in India.  God BLESS Namita. She was 23, with a marriage just months away. But two weeks ago, she was gang raped by six men, savagely beaten and thrown out of a moving bus in Delhi. This week, the still unnamed woman...
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