This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

May 27, 2013

Are you the real you?

   Remembering me as a little girl I remember how everything I looked to was so full of life, the color of the world was bright, and worries were nowhere to be found.  Growing each year I noticed the way of thinking in my mind changed as each year went by.  The beauty of the wind through my hair, the bright vivid colors of the world, the grass that moved with the wind, the laughter at almost anything that came to...
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May 19, 2013

Letter From a Twenty-two Year Old

Letter from a 22 Year Old   My Handsome Froggy   My Life changed the day I looked into your eyes, that was the day I found out that dreams were actually real, that they do come true.  I thought my life was cursed when it came to relationships but you proved that was wrong the day you touched my heart.   I know you feel how much I am grateful for you, if you feel the love as I do.  I close...
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May 13, 2013

This was a huge Aha for me

 When I first lost my husband I ran across this article and right as I was reading it the lights came on inside me, right away I felt all of me feel him and his presence.   From that day forward I did my best to understand that for him to feel my pain would leave him stuck unable to grow where ever he was, I wanted him to be the best at all he did where he was, so all of me each day focused on him being the greatest at...
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May 5, 2013

Lifes A Quote

This blog I decided to dedicate to all quotes that spoke to my heart going through this life of grieving, dreaming, finding you again. Sometimes it is in the very little you seek the strength Through all that has been happening I found that through little messages like quotes that it is as though it's the whisper in you giving you it through words in case you can not hear that whisper. Quotes to me speak to you, they speak the...
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