This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

May 21, 2014

Flashbacks ~ Letting Go

Have you ever heard so many times by others "let it go" did those three words piss you off so badly you had to count to ten and breathe?  as bad as those words are to hear those three little words have more meaning than we know, other than just taking offense to if we clearly think about it deeply in our hearts.  Have you ever found yourself in a down moment of rest with nothing on your mind to go back to times of the...
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May 14, 2014

Be the Leader not the eyes of Blindness

This is the picture that lighted a spark of fire in me to open my eyes to start thinking of all things I have seen and so strongly tried to take on alone to change, to understand that so foolishly believed we have come so far to now know we have not come as far as some believe we have.   Are you the person that looks past the evil that lurks in the world that with blind eyes knows the past has never really gone anywhere?,...
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May 7, 2014

One with Nature One with Love

Part of a journal entry of my husband passed journals that I do not think it was for no reason I came upon it this week. I am in the moment of my life where everything feels new, everything is new, starting over may bare the pain of horrific pain like no other yet at the same time as you look around you see things in a totally new way, as though things that once looked at before seem more vibrant, seem more beautiful, your heart...
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