This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Jun 30, 2012

Bullying - Something that can take a child confidence within seconds

Being born with red hair, from an instant was already a gift yet caused a truly hurtful pain as well as sucking all confidence in me that was instilled in me.  I know as a child everyone really encounters some kind of bullying in their life, whether it be being bullied or being the bully.  It is the one memory that never really gets forgotten, it is the one thing you carry with you into your adult years.  Back in...
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Jun 25, 2012

Kids are true blessings and miracles to us and the world

From the moment I found out that I was expecting my husband already had created a bond before even welcoming her beautiful soul to the world.  My daughter as well already knew his love was powerful as well as greater than the world we live in.  Each night before he would return from work she would start to stir a half hour before in my belly with excitement to hear his voice along with feel his warmth.  A bond that...
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Jun 18, 2012

Eight Days

For most of my loved one passed sickness I cared for him at our home, to have him in our presence was a gift to our hearts.  After all when looking to a terminal illness time is of a huge value to everyone involved.  His sickness was of a great shock to our life, the fact it happened really quick is some what the reasons I still question so many of things, understanding there is no answers to everything I question.  Going...
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Jun 12, 2012

Dealing with the waves of Emotions

EMOTIONS:  THEY COME ON STRONG LIKE A TYPHOON YET LEAVE AS FAST AS THEY CAME The last couple of days I've noticed just how strong along with fast the emotions come on.  No matter what day, what time, where you are, the emotions take a strong hold on you, leaving you feeling paralysed with tears in your eyes no matter who is around.  Grief takes no thoughts on where or who is around.  I think it hits us harder...
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Jun 2, 2012

Top 5 Good Feel Videos

MY TOP 5 MUSIC VIDEO'S THAT GET ME OUT OF MY FUNK It seems as though its too simple to believe but music can truly help heal how you are feeling.  Listening to music for me always changes my mood as well as mind.  They say music can heal, I truly see that now.  On my bad days of feeling blue I turn to music and every time I have it has truly changed my spirits.  So I say to all of you, when in a funk TURN ON YOUR...
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