July 2012 ~ Widow in the City

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This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.

I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Jul 30, 2012

Widows of India

After seeing the segment on OWNTV when Oprah went to India visiting the widows of India as a widow this gave many AHA MOMENTS that were never ending as I sat there to watch. As a widow thinking to myself that it is bad enough that you are struck with such over powering pain that on top of it you are shunned upon, this is no way for any widow to be bared on top of what already is happening. The pain of losing...

Jul 27, 2012

In Trying Times

This loving man to this family has passed away today the love of these peoples life, please keep them in your heart as well as prayers the journey in grieving is hard but with unconditional love they will all find their strength to make it through each and every day from this day forward. PRAYERS FOR WAYNE STITH AND FAMILY https://www.facebook.com/pages/Prayers-for-Wayne-Stith/261671300533152 For all of you that grieve...

Jul 21, 2012

The Bad @$$ in me

I don't know what it is that the grieving process has brought out in me, lately I've noticed things in me that were never before. I honestly believe in all of me that once you have suffered the worse pain in your life it opens all of you to everything you were once afraid of is no longer. That through the most horrific tragedy your body, mind as well as soul truly sees just what it can handle to smile back at you. ...

Jul 17, 2012

Widow does not mean victim

Just the other day I was told something that really struck a nerve in me, something that I honestly felt disgusted by, before getting to that I want to talk a little about my Birthday yesterday. As I celebrated my thirty-fifth Birthday, I looked back to so many moments in my life. I realised in all of who I am that this year was different, that this year was a year like no other. This year I celebrated turning...

Jul 9, 2012

Ready not ready ready not ready

So recently thinking to myself I decided since it has been over a year I thought that maybe dating would be something I would be ready for. Now as someone grieving you must know that sometimes decisions that are made can change within seconds. The emotions we feel are always so up and down that choices we feel change along with the emotions we feel. This wasn't a decision made lightly, this was something I truly thought...