This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Sep 26, 2012

Good Thoughts

  Coming from my own personal experience through grief, it has been the one thing that has lifted me up through all my darkest moments in grief, on the heavy days I had to program my mind over and over again to directly seek the good times, the good thoughts, although in tremendous pain this may seem hard, in time you do it so often that eventually as soon as you feel the pain you go to that thought right away.  I always...
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Sep 21, 2012

Part 2 - Facing Each Achievement Rapidly Successful

F-acing E-each A-achievement R-rapidly S-successful It is not until facing my grief that I have learned what truly turned my life around, it is through my husband passed I learned the lessons of my life.  To of known me then to see me now, no confidence, no hope, no dreams, not feeling good enough, lacking energy to do anything, yet through him I have blossomed into the butterfly I was always meant to be.  Had it not...
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Sep 12, 2012

Part 1 - Facing Each Achievement Rapidly Successful

F-facing E-each A-achievement R-rapidly S-successful   FEARS   On the day I sat down to notice what it was I needed to do for myself I remember how it was, it was as though I felt like I have failed myself, that in shock I could not understand how it came about, how I let it get this far?.  It was never about the asking for help, I was not someone who felt shy at all about asking for help, yet here I was finding...
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