This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Jul 26, 2013

Dear Dad:

  I remember being a little girl wondering where it was you were so often, I use to watch the door thinking in time you'd be back from where ever you had to go.  Hours passed, months, years, yet I do remember when you were around that you loved me so much, that you'd let me do just about anything I wanted just to make me laugh.  I still remember those memories like it was yesterday.  I often questioned myself if...
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Jul 23, 2013

Take Me To The River

 The other night it was an end of the heat wave that had us all seeking the cool, in the end it was a feeling that all could feel as they went out to breathe to finally be able to breathe and not feel as though they were melting.  It was a beautiful evening the wind that blew had a cool touch to it, My sister from another mother I like to call her had called me to go out like we usually do, grab a coffee, sitting at the river...
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Jul 17, 2013

Penny For My Thoughts

    I'm an Emotional mess Happy to be seeing my dreams coming true sad knowing the person that was the happiest and believed in me the most is not here to see smiling and being excited for me no matter what happens I do know IT WILL BE OK and my heart knows that somewhere he is smiling and proud As I embark on another one of my dreams coming true my husband passed lays heavy on my heart tonight.  I cried knowing...
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Jul 15, 2013

Vision Board To Reality

  Have you ever tried to see something in your mind yet felt it just wasn’t right or felt absolutely nothing?  The vision you tried seeing just wasn’t there.  That to me is a sure sign that what you are trying to fit into is just not right or maybe just not the right time.  However to determine what your trying to vision is it because you truly can’t or is it fear standing in your way making you doubt what it...
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Jul 13, 2013

Challenged Athletes Foundation Birthday Fundraiser 2013

    Every now and than I come across the most amazing people that are truly doing the greater good to help others in this world, after all that is what life is all about to help others rise above their trials and tribulations, to help others is to help you as well.  While your out reaching out to people in need in this world, it is you as well that grows to the true person you are.  Through the love of helping...
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