This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Sep 28, 2013

Be the Warrior

So in hard times is to find the good in you, around you everywhere because in hard times dealt to you one after another where it seems endless it is important to not let that suffocate you from the positive, love and shine in you, to seek the good no matter how hard, to find that silver lining no matter how hard is a must to your sanity to your soul, to your everything.  I have never been dealt with so many heart wrenching...
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Sep 23, 2013

The Love of a Parent

    Going through the grief of losing my husband has shattered my heart so many of times, but through it all each and every time I’ve put those pieces back together, some would think that is impossible but to me nothing is ever impossible, with all the love that you hold in you to the love that surrounds, to the love of God all of that makes the impossible to possible, to finding the good in every little thing no matter...
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Sep 19, 2013

Strength of your Purpose

      I want to truly go with my heart always and right now right here my heart is feeling so much that it’s going to be hard to get it all out without coming out all at once.  There was someone I met tonight that approached me that in that moment I felt I really couldn’t deal with it in the time as to the way I was feeling in my own grief, yet that was when my heart whispered to me that isn’t that what you...
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Sep 16, 2013

Bare your All

  Remembering the young lady I was to who I have grown to be now is literally something of a miracle for me.  Coming from a girl who once believed she was of nothing, hollow inside, feeling of no love, feeling of no self-esteem, no confidence, walking life in a shadow hidden from who ever walked by her path.  It’s so painful of a life to live and actually believe that is all your life is of worth.  Putting on...
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