This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Nov 25, 2013

Do Not Disturb My Darkness

    When I come from the colder side of thinking my mind asks “why did I just have to look down at my father with no life in him as before, laying still but looking at peace”?  Why did he leave me when we could have done so much more with each other, that I wasted so much time running from my past that I ignored the fact to just be love?  “Why did I have to wake up every single day to see my husband just deteriorating?...
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Nov 21, 2013

Pain in the Heart

    Seeing the pain in your eyes brings me back to the days of mine that where I felt nothing will ever be the same, that where I was I’d be forever held captive in pain for the rest of the life that I lived.  When I hear the words that are spoken loss of hope and belief of what happiness you had will ever remain again, in your eyes I see tears, fear, no spark, darkness I get chills understanding just how dark it...
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Nov 14, 2013

Letting Go Be Incredible

I’m supposed to be writing the ending of my short story but something that has come to my mind and heart I choose to type about.  So it will be a little post of mixed things that have been in my heart and on my mind. So many I know of that lost a loved one are so worried of the fact of when to put their loved ones things away, when to do it, how to do it, then there are people who pressure people into thinking it has been long enough...
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Nov 5, 2013

The Mysterious Tombstone (Part 2)

    Things that once brought a smile to Jenna’s face while shopping was no longer, her mother watched Jenna how she just glanced amongst the things of her favorites but had no emotion to everything she looked to.  Her mother knew as always she had been suspicious to that something was definitely not right as she knew all along.  She held up a sweater to Jenna and asked “what do you think?”  Jenna shrugged...
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