This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Mar 24, 2014

Spark of an Eye

It touches me to the deepest of my heart as I look to the eyes of another that has lost half their heart but to see that spark in their eye, it shows to my whole soul that they to are seeing just exactly what it was that happened to me in time after losing my husband passed.  It makes me smile the brightest of smiles knowing behind that bright spark in their eye that through their hardest of pain they to are getting the beauty,...
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Mar 17, 2014

Stress dressed in Evil

Sitting here in silence yet through my mind millions of thoughts, worries, stress, and heart wrenching incidents flash one after another in my mind never letting up.  I sit in quiet trying to shut the thoughts off, breathing and telling myself these are all things that can not be in my control, so why do I pay attention to things that are out of my hands?.  Time goes by so fast that the next thing you realize is now you...
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Mar 6, 2014

The Lows

Just the other day I found myself thinking of just how lost I can be at times when needed that extra strength and support of my husband passed in my hardest of days I face today.  I know that through our pains, hard times and struggles they are never very far from us, yet still you feel that absent of once was there.  The pain tends to take over while in your lowest of days and with all that you have you stay in that low...
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