This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Apr 24, 2014

Love, Sex, Relationships

Well the topic of love, sex and relationships back in the day use to be taboo to even think or speak of, yet to those widowed it is yet still a topic of taboo, maybe from my perspective from not all but a large majority.  To some it is this dark, deep disrespect to those that they have lost, as those in ways it feels to be cheating.  To some I see it is also something that happens quickly, making me try to grasp the difference...
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Apr 16, 2014

Signs Of Love

It amazes me how a change of your whole being happens right before your eyes but not noticing until you take the time to be in the present moment to look back on all things you have gone through.  Things you once thought was or could never be part of you, even things that you had no desire in to find the change has shifted right in front of you not even realizing in moments it happened.  How is it we take upon this change?,...
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Apr 3, 2014

Dreams arn't always as you see them to be

To remember of the dreams we shared together with our loved ones passed, so much to do together, to see together, to be the strength for one another through the times you felt like giving up.  Losing our loved ones passed may make us feel as though to give up on our dreams because that dream can no longer be because that dream was a dream of many dreams you had together.  I remember the transformation of all of me going...
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