This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Dec 18, 2012

Holiday Relief

As I type this I am in a deep thought of how the holidays can be so stressful on us all, even more so for those that are grieving.  I know for so many it is a time of great magic along with excitement, to all those that grieve it is a holiday we all wish we could just fast forward due to feelings of pain as well as sadness.   For me this time last year was as though I was watching someone on TV go through the...
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Dec 11, 2012

12 days of consciousness: Own Ambassadors

DECEMBER 14 MICHAEL LAWRENCE So it was to no surprise founder of OwnAmbassadors Lia M Keith had woke up one morning to have discovered a great idea to gift to this world, to gift to Oprah #ChristmasGiftToOprah.   Reading her idea all of me just knew this was a idea that was meant to be, an idea that was so meant to be that could not of been stopped, in this life when things are to be there is nothing that can...
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Dec 2, 2012

Heartfelt Shout Out To Oprah

DEDICATED TO OWNTV AND OWNAMBASSADORS     It is up to us to do our own work for our self in this life we live, yet the true blessing in it all is having someone, something that opens your eyes to truly how this world is seen.  It is no surprise that in this life all of us as individuals face some pretty heart wrenching of situations that face us directly in the eyes, yet it is up to us to do the work in handling...
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Nov 26, 2012

Conversation with your life

DEDICATED TO:  JANET AUTY-CARLISLE   It is funny how you never see what it is you are doing until you take the time to notice what it is that you have been doing for so long yet never realised until you took the time to see it, to slow down and find what it was.  perhaps sometimes it will be in an others voice that makes you realise it, sometimes its the little whispers that become louder and louder to you as well...
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Nov 20, 2012

It's in the unknown you find your aha blessings

So many of amazing blessings have happened over this passed weekend that yet again I sit her in awe in absolute shock how so much can just happen in an instant leaving you breath taken.  So this weekend was another life transforming moment to me in many ways from the good to the bad.  Of course as I spoke of many times it started with huge hesitation, "go?, don't go?, go?, don't go"?.  The fight in my mind lasted for...
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Nov 13, 2012

When in doubt know it's your fear clouding your judgement

    So this passed weekend I was presented with another one of those days, you know the kind where the outside world is non existent to you, the kind of day that too many of us deal with.  Waking up I found on this day a little afraid to open my eyes yet in my heart I knew it was a new day for me, a day to be grateful for having yet another chance to this life we live.  After waking up doing my routine wake up...
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Nov 2, 2012

Healing Surprises

The other day was the normal typical day, errands to run, many things to do yet inside of me I felt I just wanted to stay wrapped up,  comfy,  under the covers.  Like many we all just want to stay in to relax and just be.  For me it took all of me to motivate myself to get going, for me going out is sometimes harder for me then your typical person.  Some days I feel it takes all of me to push myself out...
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