2016 ~ Widow in the City

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This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.

I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Aug 6, 2016

Change, Signs, Help, Love

Video I did on change and signs of life and loved ones passed, things and experiences a few shared that I have noticed on my journey throw grief and change. This was hard for me to do as not use to being on camera but want to be able to push myself out of my comfort zone and talk and start doing as many live shows as I can. Please stay tuned for more to come Subscribe please YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfU_aQI-eCwIlyrjEugYPOw Please...

Jul 7, 2016

The Diversity Of Grief

As the time goes on in my life that I live I am starting to notice grief is not just a matter of the loss, the death of a loved one in the life that I am living. I am noticing the diversity of grief although the actual loss of a loved one is the ultimate heartache anyone could ever go through, I do now see that grief to me is so many things. The loss of a loved one, a pet, a job, losing your home, loss of friendship,...

Jul 6, 2016

To The Man That Broke My Heart:

As I sit here looking to the clouds on a gloomy day I cannot help but to feel exactly how the gloomy day resides with no sun, yet as I look up in wonder of why, I understand that for every end is making room for a new beginning for your life to evolve and bring in more growth, strength and light, things you thought of are making room to come into your life. As painful, hurtful and suffocating you feel now you...

May 19, 2016

Don't Look Back Your Not Going That Way

Then and now, often times gets combined in your life as you live in the now without any knowledge that you have gone to the past in the now until you one day realize really why you keep circling like you been living the same day over and over again. You stop in the unsurprisingly fact that you stand in utter shock that you have been choosing the past already gone caught up in trying to be living in the now. You see things...

May 15, 2016

Five Year Marker Bliss

It was a usual everyday kind of day, routine alarm piercing your ear with the refusal of not wanting to wake, the tiredness that takes over your whole being of wanting to just stay and be warm under your comfort zone of blankets, the sound of a child not happy as well as having to wake to start a new day at school. Chaos creeks in taking your breath away as you fly around to do all that is needed to get out the door to be...

May 7, 2016

Anxiety Does Not Discriminate

Coming from a very personal part of our life and as I say "our" I mean my daughter and I, as I say "our" it disheartens me to even have to include my little girl in that one word. Usually in that just one word usually comes a story of happiness, smiles, something that excites your whole being as well as lightening the room. However this "our" is a "our" that may seem at times to put a frown on your face, or a time...