This is a place for all broken grieving hearts to come, its my safe haven and I share this with all of you to be your safe haven. I am hoping through my journey of grieving as well as my real life experiences through grieving I can help all through their darkest hours, to ease the pain a little less, to maybe just give an ear to listen because sometimes that's all we need.


I am willing to bare all to each and everyone who comes to this blog. I want no one to be shy of anything. I want anyone to ask question's, tell their stories with pride. No one will judge you, or think you are different. We are all here going through the same thing GRIEVING. This is my safe haven, your safe haven. The place to heal, to find your smile again. Through this all I am on a journey to writing a book as well "The Grieving Path To Joy".

Dec 17, 2013

Preach on Preacher

 
 
 
If I were a preacher I’d stand up tall and strong and devote my heart to every word that came out of my mouth.  I’d preach to stand tall In the life that you live, understand what goes on around you is not what matters, people around you are distractions to your own self being, the voices of others that invade your space are just noises not voices spoken to from the heart, besides what someone says that is not backed by action really shows that it is just that WORDS.  When you feel frustrated, angered, negative it’s ok to feel the emotions but don’t let it harvest your future, don’t let it grow your garden of dreams.  If you feel your life isn’t what was planned it is because that life is the life you are so willingly deserved that what lies ahead is more of a life than you could of ever imagined. 
If I could preach I’d preach to every show off, looking down to others because there isn’t anyone in this whole world that stands higher than anyone else.  To the chaos that surrounds your every being because you look to others and see what you don’t have look closer in your own life that all the beauty is there and still lays ahead.  Don’t bite your tongue if someone makes you feel as though your nothing, because you are in this world for something, you may not have fancy and riches but materialistic things are not what are of value in life, it is who you are from the heart that counts the most.
To all the people that find happiness in the outside, soon enough will fall in knowing happiness is what you have on the inside to give to others on the outside.  Look to the success of images and messages all around you to smile in knowing what you see may not be of the heart but only of someone chasing happiness rather than finding it where it is most important INSIDE.  Don’t look to your life as though you are nowhere, that you have gotten nowhere, nothing to show, no images to bring, no messages to speak of because if your heart is speaking to all around you than in the silence of the heart and what it radiates is all the images messages and signs of I’M SO SUCCESSFUL is all you need. 
 
 

I’m talking of all this because so many people feel as though they are nothing because of what they do is not riches and fame when all along it is of the heart that is of importance, if you love out into the world, lift others up, help, and just be there for people in need that all in its own is a success of riches and fame because no amount of celebrity status, money not anything will ever make you feel as you do when you lead with your heart.  When you do what you do in silence and not heard is when you know your heart is of unconditional real love. 
I’d stand proud in the accomplishments of helping another person in pain rather stand in the fame of another.  It’s about loving you first and spreading love throughout any person in the darkest of times, that alone in you is a gift to gift unto others and that plays the role in the purpose of heart you were given.  I use to run around wishing I was this, I was that, wishing my life was more, when one day my heart awoken to a passion bigger than anything and realised it’s not of what attention you get of others it is working in your own life bringing joy and light to others where all of what mattered most is.  At the end of the day it is not about whom you have the attention of around you, it is God that see’s what you are doing and how you are leading your life and accepting him into your heart is really what matters the most at the end of the day, he is your riches and fame.  When Jesus was curing, helping, loving people he was not put in a spotlight, he carried on doing what his heart carried him to do, he did not look around to see if he was being  admired or catching the fame of others hearts he simply did what he did with love in silence.

 
If you’re out there feeling that what you do is not of importance look deeper in your heart to know in silence is where all your fame is, that what you are doing is an importance to the hearts you are healing, people you are helping, the climb you chose to climb with others to help on the way up, rather than only thinking of yourself to get the attention of others, to climb with no heart leaving people in need behind.  If it takes me forever to be where I need, where I dream I will smile in knowing it doesn’t matter because I took the time to see the people around me in need and helped them along the way. 
 
 
 
Really so tiring to see the braggers, the things that people seem to think that is so important in life when really they truly don’t see what truly is important.  On bad days I feel something is wrong with what I do, due to that idea I need to rid of in my mind of not being seen nor getting the attention of those who are famous and my idols.  Fact is those that lead with their heart in silence are truly the ones that get what life is about.   In silence is your success, to those around you scared to praise what it is you do because they are climbing the climb and do not want to put the attention on another. 
In all parts of the world we are own fame and fortune that we bring from our divine purpose through walking with those in times of need, for loving fully and in our part of the world we are making the difference in this world for the better, not anything can comfort your mind at the end of the day for putting the love into another of need.  So when your thinking to be famous or high profiled to get somewhere or to feel if you’re not you’re not of importance you need to look into the mirror to understand that you are famous, you are high profiled, even though you may not be as well-known you still offer this world an exact purpose of special significance to be here in the life you live.  Listen around you because in silence you are changing lives, and due to the fact you are doing what you do from the heart to not expect anything in return is a value bigger than any riches can give to you.
For far too long I’ve lived thinking to be someone special I needed the attention of someone more well known I know in my heart I have the biggest of well-known in this world who is called God and that cannot get any more bigger than anyone out there, with him alone in your life you will find the life of divine, the life of precious unconditional love to help so many that need out of the dark, guided by him you shall forever find blessings little by little all around you.  I get that it is flattering to be known and have many adore you and in the eyes constantly of so many but touching hearts of all in need is where I’d prefer to be.  This goes out to so many right now that feel what they are doing in their life is not of importance, or they strive to want the attention of a celebrity to help them be noticed more, your life no matter where you are is of great importance no matter who sees, whose head you turn, when led by the heart God is the one that will lift you higher and in his eyes only is all you need to worry about to attract and be recognized.
 
 
Biting my tongue no longer, things are not of the same anymore too many are out to be that one person of attention because of who they know, who they got the attention of, it frustrates me because of all this it shows others that because they are not in that life style that their life is not of worth when in all it is of the opposite, in silence is when you know you are building to something even bigger than your heart ever expected, in silence is really when you know you have grabbed the attention of others they just don’t speak of it because they know you’re at the peak of your climb and that scares them.  No worries for me, no worries to all you out there building your life but feeling you are getting nowhere because your nowhere is higher than where you been before, it’s in that silence that the people who do not get what leading life from the heart is all about, that there eyes of their heart are not open just yet.  So remember you are important no matter how quiet it is around you, God see’s you, he feels you, he guides you and that’s the journey your feet need to be grounded to, in time what you seek will be bigger than anything you ever could of imagined. 
Grief is a hard topic, yet once broken open is truly where you see the beauty in it all, to see the light come on is truly where you see your love was led truly unto that person, in that alone is a bigger blessing than anything in this world.  Don’t fight your purpose because you feel it should be filled with fame and fortune, your life is already of fame in fortune the biggest person who you hold the attention of ever in this life time is God, he blesses you with all you need in the purpose you build.  So say to yourself always I am worthy. I am on the right way; his guidance will never leave you astray.
I remembering a man that every day I would walk past and see and smile to him every day as he was putting around in his back yard making it look it’s best, and even in winter he would always be out still in no matter what weather there he would be and one day as I walked by he said to me “ I look forward to your smiles every day, I’ve come quite accustomed to seeing you every day you pass by here, makes what I feel working on that is not of necessary that it is so much more, I feel that being back here is my little place of sacredness added with you and your bright smile”.  That’s just it sometimes in life we just do not know how important we are to people, to feel insignificant is to let go of the glorious life you been blessed with.  That all in silence there are blessings close to you that you not know of, that even in the hardest of times in frustration you feel you are not getting nowhere in life because you are not being heard, noticed, or have so many that adore you out loud that in reality you are in silence, you are seen, you are heard, you are valued, you are loved.
 
 
 
Being human sometimes we can often get side tracked in the disbelief that the attention we need to be of value is to be noticed by higher profiled well known people but we always forget that the one person it all matters to is in God’s eyes, he is our biggest fan and with him all things are possible.  You do not need swarming fans, high profiled people, because all that is of happiness of the outside find what your happiness within is trying to tell you and step forward in what your heart leads you to.  “The greatest battles of life are fought out daily in the silent chambers of the soul”. – David O Mckay.  “The greatest comfort in this life is having a close relationship with God”.  – David O Mckay.  “If silence were your only friend, know that the universe understand you.  Should fame and wealth find you – know that it is much better than your finding them.  For you shall have silence as your best friend”. – Amarjyoti Acharya. 
NOTE TO ALL:  No matter where you are in your life you are of value, importance, loved, and great significance, that in your silence is your fame of the blessings of your heart and the eyes of the most important walk with you through each step of your life leading you to all you need and all where you need to be, don’t worry about having to make noise, heads turn and have people gaga over you , that is all not what you need to become who you want to be, that the following you have may be small it is your heart and the life’s you change one at a time that grows everyday even in moments you do not realise you have touched a heart , be you and do not change for no one because you feel you are unworthy and what you do is not of importance because it is the opposite of what you feel.
 Love you, love out in the world, love and nourish your purpose and do not feel it is a purpose that is not of significance because all our purposes are of great significance to this world, to specific people who need our purpose in their life in the darkness they wander.  We are human and yes sometimes that is taken for granted in the tears we shed for feeling insignificant to others that ignore us, but we make our life what it is on our own not by what others do for it.  You’re not in the lime light you may feel but your loving heart that leads you to where you go is all the lime light you need to ever see and have. 
 
 
Be the true you not what you feel will bring you riches and fame because all that is not what you hold in your heart nor where your heart truly needs to be.  It’s ok to have idols but not to be so consumed by attention of that person and basing your worth on the attention you receive from that person.  If I could preach I’d yell from the highest mountain that every person in this world is of value and loved, that they are of great meaning to this world.  Never forget to remind yourself everyday “I am of worth, I am important, I am love and most of all I am God’s beautiful creation in a unique way to be of importance to people’s life out there somewhere”. 
 
 
 


 
 

 
 

 
 
 

 

 


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